Why I'm Not Grateful
Is the ocean grateful that the river runs into it?
Is the sky grateful for another cloud?
Is a lion grateful for the hunt?
Are you grateful to be able to vote?
What does it mean to be grateful?
To be grateful implies something was given to us.
Something that was not expected.
Something that we could not achieve on our own.
Something that goes beyond our expectations.
Is the bird grateful it can fly?
No.
It flies because it can.
It is expected.
It doesn’t owe anyone or anything for its rightful ability to take flight.
It’s what it does.
As humans, we should expect to be fed, have shelter, safety, justice, freedom, love.
These rights of life are not given.
These rights are part of the expectation of life.
Our rights as humans.
To be grateful implies these rights are given to us.
By who?
Show them to us!
This is the argument stated in the Declaration of Independence of why our founding fathers were not “grateful” to the King of England.
Since the foundations of civilization, men have corruptly manipulated the weak.
The most insidious is the evil that men do to the minds of the innocent.
The most hateful is the idea that we should be grateful to them.
Grateful that we are allowed to exist.
That’s the implication that is being driven home.
By whom?
By white racist men in the white racist world, in white racist pulpits, in white racist places of power.
They are not giving; they are selling.
They want us all to be grateful to them forever.
They want us to owe them for allowing us to exist.
They want us to be on credit until they say we are paid up.
They want us to be grateful that they allow us to have our sustenance, shelter, safety, justice, freedom, and even our love.
There is no end to this mortgage of suffering.
I get fired up when I’m asked to be grateful for the air I breathe.
I get fired up when I’m asked to be grateful I’m allowed justice.
I get fired up when I’m asked to be grateful I’m allowed to live.
If you want me to be grateful, give me something I don’t have on my own.
Give me an equal opportunity to work.
Give me financial credit.
Give me the freedom of the vote.
Give me respect.
See me.
Peace
DFrey